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Re: abortion question.....scared!From: Daisy (anonymous@obgyn.net)Sat, 16 Aug 2003 17:56:09 -0500 (CDT)
well i guess that's the most information i'm going to get from people. i didnt mean for this topic to get so conterversial. i dont think of abortion as my birth control. i wish i would have not gotten pregnant in the first place, but even though i may not think its right what i'm going to do but i think i HAVE to do it. considering that i wouldnt have any family support and i wouldnt even be done with my school education (and doing quit well with a 83 average), it just puts me in the state of mind in thinking it would be the best and right thing for me to do. i feel that i'm too young and not ready to have a baby, though my fiancee wants to have this baby. considering that he wants to have this baby, if i were to have this baby, i dont think he would want me to give it up for adoption since its his blood. his family would support me but i just think of it as its MY life that's at risk here. i'm scared as it is just thinking of what i'm going to do, though i'm still not exactly sure what they're going to do it?, how?, and whether or not it'll hurt a lot? hurt just for that day? hurt for many days? things like that. i understand that i might live a lifetime of regret but i just feel right now i'm not emotionally or physically ready to have this baby. by the way, a lot of you guys think that i'm in a rush to start having sex again. its not that, i just ask because after the procedure is done, i just think i'm going to be traumatized into not having sex again in just thinking that i'm not "healed" yet, that i'm going to get pregnant again and things like that. i'm still open to read your opiions over my situatiion. thanks to all those that replied and once again i'm sorry if things got a little out of hand with my questions.
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