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Re: abortion question.....scared!
From: Anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 14 Aug 2003 01:42:52 -0500 (CDT)
Well, I've never had kids and I have had a hysterectomy so unfortunately
I will never know the experience. I've never had an abortion either.
You didn't answer the question, how far along were you? If you could
tell the sex it had to be 2nd trimester, why did you wait so long? Just
because you waited so long to have an abortion don't lay a guilt trip on
somebody else.
At Thu, 14 Aug 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
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>She wanted to know what to expect..I told her...I didn't want to send
>her on a guilt trip...but if it sent you on one...that is something you
>need to deal with and I am sorry for you...I am not going to sugar coat
>things to protect her feelings..she needs to know all sides of it..not
>be hidden from the truth about what could happen. Sorry if you feel the
>need to sugar coat things for people..I care about this girl and her
>LIFETIME decision...I told my story..sorry if you don't like it! I
>didn't tell her not to do it..I told her to take a hard look at the
>possible outcomes....Sorry if you can't handle that!
>I am not going to baby her or anyone else when it comes to decisions
>that can change your life forever..that, my friend, would be
>irresponsible! It is my story and it is true....REAL LIFE!!!!!!!!!!
>
>At Wed, 13 Aug 2003, Anonymous wrote:
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>>This is a forum where people come to get help, to to be taken on a guilt
>>trip. This post was cruel and totally uncalled for. First of all, how
>>far along were you if you could tell the sex from an ultrasound, from
>>what I understand the sex can't be determined until between 18-20 weeks.
>>That is a 2nd trimester abortion and is much different than what this
>>young lady will go through. Unless you had a very good reason for
>>waiting so long I don't know the circumstances you were in and I don't
>>know the circumstances she is in, and neither do you! I agree that this
>>is a decision that she needs to think about but you were out of line.
>>
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