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Re: abortion question.....scared!

From: Anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 13 Aug 2003 23:50:17 -0500 (CDT)

This is a forum where people come to get help, to to be taken on a guilt trip. This post was cruel and totally uncalled for. First of all, how far along were you if you could tell the sex from an ultrasound, from what I understand the sex can't be determined until between 18-20 weeks. That is a 2nd trimester abortion and is much different than what this young lady will go through. Unless you had a very good reason for waiting so long I don't know the circumstances you were in and I don't know the circumstances she is in, and neither do you! I agree that this is a decision that she needs to think about but you were out of line.

At Wed, 13 Aug 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: >
>I am going to be honest with you about my experience. You may not want
>to hear all of it. I hope you have the courage to read it. Though
>certain people know I had an abortion I had never spoken about it.
>
>I was interviewed and a sonogram of my baby was taken. I was told it
>was safe. I was at a perfectly safe clinic that was licensed to do what
>they do. I was told not to feel guilty that it wasn't a baby. I could
>see SHE was obviously one on the monitor.
>
>A woman said she was going to put some pegs into my vagina and these
>would kill the fetus and for me to come back the following day to have
>the fetus removed. So I had my pegs in there and I went home.
>
>I sat there all night long trying not to think about it. I was "killing
>the fetus" as the woman put it. I thought about running to the ER and
>having the pegs removed, but I didnt. I felt alot of things that night
>that I can't explain.
>
>The next day they put me to sleep. I woke up, they said it was done. On
>a bed for 3 hours and took a taxi home. I bled a bit but nothing too
>bad. I went on about my life.
>
>I have thought about the fetus that I now consider my daughter. A
>daughter that I chose to kill. I will live with that forever. I wonder
>if she would've looked like my new daughter.(snip)

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