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Re: I've never had an orgasim
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 23 Jul 2003 14:22:32 -0500 (CDT)
Try a shower head with a very hard and precise setting (pulsating even
better), if you know what I mean. You will almost certainly have an
orgasm. Get in the shower and relax. DOn't laugh, it really works!
At Sun, 20 Jul 2003, silver wrote:
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>At Thu, 3 Jul 2003, annoymous wrote:
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>>I am a 21 yr old female, and recently b/c sexually active. I have never
>>been able to reach orgasim, thru sexual intercourse or masterbation. It
>>is hard to describe what it is that i do feel, but I believe i have come
>>very close. It builds up inside, and then it just kind of dissapears.
>>It is frustrating b/c I worry that i may never be able to have an
>>orgasim, is such a thing possible? I do not have a low sex drive, I am
>>healthy, and fit. Is it just a question of more experimentation? Please
>>let me know, In all seriousness it is something that has been bothering
>>me for sometime. thank you.
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>Hi.. If you think about it too
>much it's just so..disheartening. I just stopped trying to give myself
>any pleasure cuz i know that the feelings arent gonna be "adequate" so
>why even try? (That's my mindset-- probably not a very good one, at
>that. But then again, i havent had much of a libido since i started
>taking BC pills anyways so..:-S). I have read from different sites that
>up to 20% of women have never reached orgasm. I'd say that NOT having a
>full orgasm (like a "WHOA!",wow, full release moment) is common in a lot
>of girls.Relaxing and not thinking about the end result is supposed to
>work. If you think too hard,you might get disappointed when your
>"willpower" isnt as strong as u think (heh ;))
>I just wanted to say that you're TOTALLY not alone and that it is quite
>a frustrating situation to be in, and wondering WHY? and not getting the
>answers and not being able to fix it is disturbing. YOu dont have to
>"give up" (like i did) but u can keep on doing whatever u feel like and
>maybe ull get a surprise one day? I dont know, but just know you're not
>alone. I hope u feel a little better. Bye!
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>-silver
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