YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for March, 2003: Re: very painful sex....STILL NEED HELP

Re: very painful sex....STILL NEED HELP

From: Haillie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 26 Mar 2003 20:25:02 -0600 (CST)

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Lindsay, I know exactly how you feel. I had the same problems with severe pain and my boyfriend not being able to get inside. Basically, what worked for me, was having him finger me as often as possible, using at least 2 fingers. We also did LOTS of foreplay, and used a ton of lube. He also went really, really slow when he was about to go in, like just the tip, let me relax, then apply a little more pressure and more lube if necessary for as long as it takes. it also helped me immensly to relax and not get worried and scared of the possibility of pain. It also might not hurt to take a couple of Advil a few hours before you know you'll be attempting to have sex. At the very least it might help take some of the edge off of your pain. Also know that once he's in, it hurts a lot less, and get much easier over time. This worked for me and my ex, and I'm tiny and well, my friends and I called him the pornstar. hope this helps you out a bit! Good luck! Haillie At Wed, 26 Mar 2003, anonymous wrote: >
>Lindsay, I don't know how you would feel about this, but it may be
>helpful to practice inserting objects of increasing size. Obviously,
>you need to feel comfortable with yourself to do this, but if you are
>patient and persistent, I think you can stretch the hymen on your own
>gradually. Just be sure to use lubrication and wash throughly after
>each use.
>
>At Wed, 26 Mar 2003, Lindsay wrote:
>>
>>Please someone, I feel like I have not recieved any useful advice. I
>>wrote earlier "very painful sex" and recieved a few nice messages, and
>>one from a doctor telling me to see a sex therapist, but as a college
>>student on a tight budget, that is simply not an option for me. I am
>>beginning to get even more frustrated with the position I am
>>in....please, if you understand my situation and have ANY suggestions,
>>please please let me know.
>>
>>--
>>Lindsay
>>

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