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Re: Failed attempt at losing virginityFrom: Maya (anonymous@obgyn.net)Wed, 26 Mar 2003 18:15:40 -0600 (CST)
At Mon, 24 Mar 2003, girl wrote: > >At Sat, 22 Mar 2003, Liz wrote: >> >>Last night I attempted to have sex for the first time. However, I found >>it very painful, and my partner found it very difficult to insert his >>penis. In fact, we didn't manage it - we eventually gave up because I >>found it too painful. I did bleed however - so I take this to mean my >>hymen broke (am I correct?). If it has broken, does this mean that next >>time we try it will be easier?? > >should be easier, yes, but try to get him to give you oral sex, whilst >in the missionary position, arousing your clitoris until you feel more >elastic, should produce lots of lubrication which will relax your >muscles and let him enter you without much or any pain. You can >practise alone first, lick your fingers and massage your clitoris until >you feel more flexible inside, and fantasize, it should all help. Sorry >to blunt here, but you need some clear advice, hope things get better. And use jelly ( KY, Astroglide) freely!
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