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Re: very painful sex
From: Adriannne (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 26 Mar 2003 14:27:05 -0600 (CST)
If you are a virgin the first time always hurts untill he gets it passed
and stretches it.. Have you tried some type of lubrication like KY
JELLY to make it insert easy?
At Wed, 26 Mar 2003, Lindsay wrote:
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>At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, Alicia M. Lapidus M.D. wrote:
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>>At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, Lindsay wrote:
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>>>I am 19yrs old and a virgin. I have always had problems with pain when
>>>being fingered or using tampons- until recently. I have a boyfriend of
>>>8 monthes and I have become comfortable with both of those problems.
>>>However, we have tried to have sex on numerous occasions and the pain
>>>for me has been so overwhelming that he couldn;t even penetrate past my
>>>hymen. I have talked to my gyno about this problem many times and he
>>>has told me that he can tell my hymen is loosening and that it will just
>>>take time, and several sexual experiences, before I can enjoy sex
>>>without pain. However, the pain is so unbelievable, that we can't even
>>>have sex for the first time so that I can begin to become accustomed
>>>with it. My gyno suggested that I have a hymenectomy, but this would
>>>require me to tell my parents, and for obvious reasons, thats simply not
>>>an option. My boyfriend and I live nearly 14 hours apart and do not see
>>>eachother terribly often, so I am very frustrated that when we do, we
>>>are unable to have sex. Please give me some advice as to what to do, or
>>>if you have heard of this happening before. Thank you...
>>>
>>>--
>>>Lindsay
>>>
>>See a sex therapist..
>>
>>--
>>Alicia M. Lapidus M.D.
>>Director Obgyn.net Latina
>>Chief of Staff Obstetrics, Hospital J. A. Fernández
>>Buenos Aires
>>Argentina
>>Note: opinions expressed here are for educational purposes
>> only and, as such, do not constitute a physician-patient
>> relationship. This information is not intended to supplant
>> the need for you to consult with your physician prior to
>> choosing therapeutic options and/or interventions.
>>
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>Thank you for replying, but would I have to pay for a sex therapist?
>Because I am a college student and could not afford that.
>
>--
>Lindsay
>
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