YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for March, 2003: Re: very painful sex

Re: very painful sex

From: Lindsay (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 26 Mar 2003 13:58:58 -0600 (CST)

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At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, Alicia M. Lapidus M.D. wrote: >
>At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, Lindsay wrote:
>>
>>I am 19yrs old and a virgin. I have always had problems with pain when
>>being fingered or using tampons- until recently. I have a boyfriend of
>>8 monthes and I have become comfortable with both of those problems.
>>However, we have tried to have sex on numerous occasions and the pain
>>for me has been so overwhelming that he couldn;t even penetrate past my
>>hymen. I have talked to my gyno about this problem many times and he
>>has told me that he can tell my hymen is loosening and that it will just
>>take time, and several sexual experiences, before I can enjoy sex
>>without pain. However, the pain is so unbelievable, that we can't even
>>have sex for the first time so that I can begin to become accustomed
>>with it. My gyno suggested that I have a hymenectomy, but this would
>>require me to tell my parents, and for obvious reasons, thats simply not
>>an option. My boyfriend and I live nearly 14 hours apart and do not see
>>eachother terribly often, so I am very frustrated that when we do, we
>>are unable to have sex. Please give me some advice as to what to do, or
>>if you have heard of this happening before. Thank you...
>>
>>--
>>Lindsay
>>
>See a sex therapist..
>
>--
>Alicia M. Lapidus M.D.
>Director Obgyn.net Latina
>Chief of Staff Obstetrics, Hospital J. A. Fernández
>Buenos Aires
>Argentina
>Note: opinions expressed here are for educational purposes
> only and, as such, do not constitute a physician-patient
> relationship. This information is not intended to supplant
> the need for you to consult with your physician prior to
> choosing therapeutic options and/or interventions.
>
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Thank you for replying, but would I have to pay for a sex therapist? Because I am a college student and could not afford that.

--
Lindsay

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