YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for March, 2003: Re: very painful sex

Re: very painful sex

From: Lindsay (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 26 Mar 2003 13:55:12 -0600 (CST)

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At Sat, 22 Mar 2003, Liz wrote: >
>Hello
>I am interested to see a reply to this from someone who knows, because I
>appear to have the same problem. I just thought I'd let you know, so
>that you don't feel alone - reading your message certainly made me feel
>a bit better.
>
>At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
>>
>>If you are over 18 why do your parents need to know??
>>
> Thank you for the response, it makes me feel better that I am not the only one. To the person who asked why my parents need to know, its just because I am on their insurance, and the insurance would be paying the bill of the surgery if I had it done. Otherwise, I think I would get it; but I come from a very religious and traditional family in which my parents believe its wrong to have pre-marital sex.Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do?
Thanks!

At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, Lindsay wrote: >>>
>>>I am 19yrs old and a virgin. I have always had problems with pain when
>>>being fingered or using tampons- until recently. I have a boyfriend of
>>>8 monthes and I have become comfortable with both of those problems.
>>>However, we have tried to have sex on numerous occasions and the pain
>>>for me has been so overwhelming that he couldn;t even penetrate past my
>>>hymen. I have talked to my gyno about this problem many times and he
>>>has told me that he can tell my hymen is loosening and that it will just
>>>take time, and several sexual experiences, before I can enjoy sex
>>>without pain. However, the pain is so unbelievable, that we can't even
>>>have sex for the first time so that I can begin to become accustomed
>>>with it. My gyno suggested that I have a hymenectomy, but this would
>>>require me to tell my parents, and for obvious reasons, thats simply not
>>>an option. My boyfriend and I live nearly 14 hours apart and do not see
>>>eachother terribly often, so I am very frustrated that when we do, we
>>>are unable to have sex. Please give me some advice as to what to do, or
>>>if you have heard of this happening before. Thank you...
>>>
>>>--
>>>Lindsay
>>>

--
Lindsay

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