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Re: very painful sex
From: Liz (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat, 22 Mar 2003 14:12:01 -0600 (CST)
Hello
I am interested to see a reply to this from someone who knows, because I
appear to have the same problem. I just thought I'd let you know, so
that you don't feel alone - reading your message certainly made me feel
a bit better.
At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
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>If you are over 18 why do your parents need to know??
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>At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, Lindsay wrote:
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>>I am 19yrs old and a virgin. I have always had problems with pain when
>>being fingered or using tampons- until recently. I have a boyfriend of
>>8 monthes and I have become comfortable with both of those problems.
>>However, we have tried to have sex on numerous occasions and the pain
>>for me has been so overwhelming that he couldn;t even penetrate past my
>>hymen. I have talked to my gyno about this problem many times and he
>>has told me that he can tell my hymen is loosening and that it will just
>>take time, and several sexual experiences, before I can enjoy sex
>>without pain. However, the pain is so unbelievable, that we can't even
>>have sex for the first time so that I can begin to become accustomed
>>with it. My gyno suggested that I have a hymenectomy, but this would
>>require me to tell my parents, and for obvious reasons, thats simply not
>>an option. My boyfriend and I live nearly 14 hours apart and do not see
>>eachother terribly often, so I am very frustrated that when we do, we
>>are unable to have sex. Please give me some advice as to what to do, or
>>if you have heard of this happening before. Thank you...
>>
>>--
>>Lindsay
>>
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