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Re: very painful sex
From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Thu, 20 Mar 2003 21:02:22 -0600 (CST)
If you are over 18 why do your parents need to know??
At Thu, 20 Mar 2003, Lindsay wrote:
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>I am 19yrs old and a virgin. I have always had problems with pain when
>being fingered or using tampons- until recently. I have a boyfriend of
>8 monthes and I have become comfortable with both of those problems.
>However, we have tried to have sex on numerous occasions and the pain
>for me has been so overwhelming that he couldn;t even penetrate past my
>hymen. I have talked to my gyno about this problem many times and he
>has told me that he can tell my hymen is loosening and that it will just
>take time, and several sexual experiences, before I can enjoy sex
>without pain. However, the pain is so unbelievable, that we can't even
>have sex for the first time so that I can begin to become accustomed
>with it. My gyno suggested that I have a hymenectomy, but this would
>require me to tell my parents, and for obvious reasons, thats simply not
>an option. My boyfriend and I live nearly 14 hours apart and do not see
>eachother terribly often, so I am very frustrated that when we do, we
>are unable to have sex. Please give me some advice as to what to do, or
>if you have heard of this happening before. Thank you...
>
>--
>Lindsay
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