YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for January, 2003: Re: first time sex

Re: first time sex

From: Anna (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 14 Jan 2003 23:22:17 -0600 (CST)

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Hi,

look at: http://www.puberty101.com/p_femalegenitals.shtml Then, take a mirror, and look, and proceed in whatever way you find interesting/exciting/pleasant. DO NOT force yourself into whatever - believe me, once you really WANT to have sex, you'll find a way and WON'T get turned off. :-) Be aware that your hymen might cover the better part of the entrance to your vagina, but if you are menstruating, there definitely is an opening.

Again, if you get tense, maybe you are not ready yet, or maybe the boyfriend ought to put in a lot more of an effeort foreplay-wise.

Good luck, Anna

At Tue, 14 Jan 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: >
>I am 19 years old and my boyfriend and I would both like to begin having
>sex (we are both virgins). The problem is that I have never experienced
>penetration of any kind because I get extremely tense, nervous and
>turned off sexually. I have tried to penetrate myself with no success
>as I really just dont know what Im doing and I cant seem to find the
>right spot? I feel that being able to penetrate myself would be a
>helpful first step to going straight to sex which makes me nervous
>because im scared of the pain I will experience having never been
>penetrated before by anything. When I try to look for advice I feel my
>particular problem if brushed off as no one ever really says how to go
>about doing this painlessly (at least finger penetration). Everywhere
>that i look it simply says insert your fingers into the vagina... well
>thats precisly my problem.. I donr know how.. if you have any useful
>advice I would greatly appreciate it .. thanks

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