Re: virgin-masturbation
From: Anna (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 9 Jan 2003 21:22:40 -0600 (CST)
Hi,
first of all, don't pressure yourself. If you want to force yourself to
orgasm, it sure won't work. :-)
My hints: Lubricant (like Astroglide or plain old saliva, lots of it),
nipple stimulation, fantasies, the shower head (pulse setting), the
infamous G-spot (patience!), and (maybe!) something electric, like a
vibrator or an electric toothbrush. In any case, be gentle to yourself,
and take it very, very slowly. Let your main goal be to feel good, not
to orgasm. An orgasm is nothing but feeling very, very good, so any
step helps.
--
Anna
>At Mon, 6 Jan 2003, non-orgasmer wrote:
>>
>>i'm a virgin, and im 17 and have just started masturbating. I've read
>>through a lot of the questions on this site and cant seem to find one
>>that helps. I've tried masturbating all sorts of ways, but i cant
>>orgasm. I dont know how, or even how to begin. I cant see myself
>>asking anyone this so can you please help? I'm scared if i cant do it
>>myself, i'll never be able to do it with a guy later on.
>>Thanks in advance
>
>--
>Harvey S. Marchbein, M.D. FACOG, FACS
>Great Neck, New York
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