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Re: first time gyn visit! please help!
From: Jenn (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 19 Dec 2002 08:18:18 -0800
Ok--I get it.
I understand your frustration. I, too was a victim of doctor's impropriety
( and it was much worse than what happened to your wife) but I still
believe, honestly, that this is not the place or time for such a debate.
Unfortunately, sometimes we hear things with a preconceived notion already
in our head, with a tainted thought already planted.
I'm sure you can find many forums on which you can voice your very valid
concerns/opinions. All I'm saying is this is not the place for the type of
discussion you want to have.
All the best to you and your wife,
--Jenn
>----- Original Message -----
From: "Husband" <anonymous@obgyn.net>
To: "Multiple recipients of list YOUNG-WOMEN"
<young-women@mail.medispecialty.com>
Sent: Thursday, December 19, 2002 1:25 AM
Subject: Re: first time gyn visit! please help!
> At Wed, 18 Dec 2002, Jenn wrote:
> >
> >Husband/Male:
> >Please, please, please...this is not a debate forum. I ask you in the
nicest
> >possible way, with no offense intended, please post only questions and or
> >comments regarding medical conditions. We may not always agree with the
> >doctor's answer (I've called them on a few things myself) BUT this is no
> >place to get into a debate over male doctor statistics. The women who
come
> >here are here to get answers and stuff like this can very well scare them
> >away. Thanks for listening.
> >--Jenn
> >
> Dear Jenn, once I watched French TV and I learned that one russian
> journalist was sentenced to prison for "scaring
> the population". He wrote TRUTH about something ( I guess about the
> unecological behaviour of Russian army). You suggest that this is not
> the forum where
> the TRUTH should be said about the culture of the gynecological care.
> However, doctors do not offer us any other place for debating these
> issues.
> I stress that I do not invent here stories in order to perturb the
> worship
> of this forum; it is because my wife lived them that I rise my voice
> (of Don Quijote). She has had complicated pregnancy in France, one or
> two
> exams per week during 9 months. She was treated by a private (male)
> gynecologist
> in a small city, in a hospital in the same city and in a reputed
> superhospital in Paris. Only twice (!) in about thirty cases she was
> offered a folding screen to undress in privacy and, by the way, it was a
> FEMALE midwife
> in Paris who was so "incredibly" tactfull.
>
> Dear Jenn, why don't you write a message to Dr Cristalli that you find
> inappropriate to expose honest women totally nude? In particular, if the
> European doctors adopted the U.S. standards I would not write any post
> here.
>
> --
> Husband
>
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