YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for November, 2002: Pelvic Pain In the Beginning of Intimate Interaction

Pelvic Pain In the Beginning of Intimate Interaction

From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Thu, 28 Nov 2002 00:13:18 EST

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I'm a 17 year old who has never been sexually active. I am scheduled for my first appointment with a gynecologist in the next couple of weeks because of a very irregular menstrual cycle. I'm mentioning that not because I believe it has anything to do with my question, but more because it could a factor and I'd rather bring it up than risk leaving it out. Just recently I decided that I might be interested in becoming sexually active with a close friend of mine who I have gotten to know quite well over the past couple of years. I feel very comfortable with him, however, when we started to get intimate, and he touched my lower body, I experienced sharp jabs of shooting pain on both sides of my pelvic area. At one instance my neck also stiffened simultaneously with the jabs. So long as he didn't touch that region of my body I was fine. Do you think this is my body's way of telling me that I'm not ready to be sexually active, or could there be something more serious going on? It has taken me a very long time to feel this willing to share myself on an intimate level with another human being, and I'm frustrated by how resistant my body seems to be. If you have any ideas about what might be going on, I'd appreciate any insight on the matter.

L.K.

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