YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for November, 2002: Re: very painful and failed attempts to have sexual intercource

Re: very painful and failed attempts to have sexual intercource

From: Anna (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 12 Nov 2002 19:49:49 -0600 (CST)

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Hi,

something you can do on your own: Get a mirror, and explore your nether regions. (Maybe do it around ovulation time, when you are naturally wetter, or use some lubricant like Astroglide.) See which bits hurt (if any), and which don't. This is your body, and you ought to know it, even (especially!) the parts that are giving you trouble. Wash your hands, and there is nothing wrong with exploring the insides too. You can't hurt yourself. Do you masturbate? Nothing wrong with that, you know :-), and it'll help you become more relaxed about something touching you down there. Also, after an orgasm, you will be less likely to clam up.

Just a thought. Anna

>
>At Tue, 12 Nov 2002, migbaby,igyugmig wrote:
>>
>>Hi, i am 23 and still a virgin. i have tried to have sex many times
>>before but it is always so painful that i withdraw before any real
>>penetration can occur. i am therefore still a virgin and every boy i
>>date dumps me when they realise that i am too scared to let them
>>penetrate me. is there something wrong with me? is there any way for me
>>to break my hymen so that penetration can be easier and in that way i
>>can lose my virginity? i have been told to use a tampon to break my
>>hymen. i have never used a tampon and i am scared to do so, what should
>>i do? i am really frustrated, please reply with an answer, thank you,
>>igyugmig
>

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