Re: gynocologists are wrong!
From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Tue, 27 Aug 2002 20:16:20 -0500 (CDT)
I'm not even going to give you the satisfaction of replying to such a
ridiculous and obviously inflammatory post.
To everyone else, doctors, forum members, etc.:
DON'T GIVE THIS PERSON WHAT THEY WANT! JUST IGNORE HIM AND HE WILL
EVENTUALLY GO AWAY!
We all know the truth, and we all know that so many women would be dead
if they didn't have that "exam" done, "just in case." This girl was at a
gyn's office for something specific, otherwise she would have been at a
general practictioners office so OBVIOUSLY they would do an exam.
At Tue, 27 Aug 2002, Todd wrote:
>
>My girlfriend recently told me she had been to a gynecologist at the age
>of 15. I was appalled by what she told me. She was made to endure a
>full exam, and afterwards the doctor told her it wasn't necessary but
>was done "just-in-case." Why gynecologists feel the need to subject
>girls to an exam of this nature just on a whim is beyond me. I don't
>think many realize just what these doctors are doing. My girlfriend's
>and I'm sure many other girls' first sexual experience was not with a
>person they loved, but with an older male stranger. Her virginity was
>technically taken away by this stranger, who tore her open, and
>inflicted pain on her in a sexual manner. She had to lay exposed and in
>a demeaning position, while a strange doctor fingered her and touched
>her intimate areas and embarrassed her. If this was any other situation
>but at the hands of a "doctor" it would be considered molestation. It
>sickens me to think about it, and that people actually think this is ok.
>What gynecologists are doing to girls is WRONG! It is molestation. In
>any other case a man doing these sorts of things to a young girl would
>be put in jail, but just because he's a "doctor" its ok, even if the
>exam was unnecessary, as in the case of my girlfriend. It is downright
>appalling! I would never let my daughter be in such a demeaning,
>embarrassing, and painful situation at the hands of a strange man no
>matter who he is, and I wish I could do something to prevent you people
>from doing this to so many other girls.