Re: 'Shy' cervix?
From: Robin (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun, 31 Mar 2002 20:02:01 -0600 (CST)
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>>Is my experience common?
>
>I think that your experience is common, but not for what you think. Most
>women want a female practitioner because they THINK they want a
>'sympathetic' clinician, when they actually want an 'empathetic'
>clinician (not someone who can say: that doesn't hurt, I've had it done
>many times, but rather: this might hurt and if it does tell me and I'll
>change what I am doing.) My opinion, more female practitioners are
>sympathetic and more males are empathetic. Generalization, but just my
>humble opinion.
I have gone to several OBGYN's since I was 15 (I am now 35). Each one
would always tell me to let them know if what they were doing was
uncomfortable or painful and they would reposition themselves.
If a Dr. or a Nurse caused pain during an exam and did not reposition,
I would insist they stop the exam immediately.
If someone tells you it doesn't hurt they've had it done many times,
well, remind them everyone has a different pain tolerance.
I do think most Drs. and Nurses will be caring enough to do what my
Drs. have done and what Dr. Chudacoff has done.
--
Robin
>The nurse should have stopped, repositioned, or
>proceeded slowly.
>
>Your 'shy' cervix may be related to a pelvic mass pushing the uterus to
>the side, or endometriosis causing shortening of the suspensory
>ligaments of the uterus. Without a thorough pelvic exam, then an
>ultrasound is in order.
>
>I have a hugh respect for Planned Parenthood, but you DO get what you
>pay for. If you want more compassion and patience go to a private
>physician.
>
>--
>Richard Chudacoff, MD, FACOG
>Chudacoff Obstetrics & Gynecology, PLLC
>Sugar Land, TX
>
>Note: opinions expressed here are for educational purposes
> only and, as such, do not constitute a physician-patient
> relationship. This information is not intended to supplant
> the need for you to consult with your physician prior to
> choosing therapeutic options and/or interventions.
>
> **Private emails cannot be entertained due to time
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>
> **Thank you for understanding :).**
>
--
Robin
I'm not a Dr. or any type of Medical Professional.
Please consult your with your own MD for advice and treatment.
No private emails, please.
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