YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for January, 2002: Re: boyfriend isn't a virgin

Re: boyfriend isn't a virgin

From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Fri, 4 Jan 2002 18:09:05 -0600 (CST)

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Hi, Well let me tell you from a personal point of view. If you love him, I mean really love him then it shouldn't matter if he has slept with 20 people. Everybody experiments, but if you are willing to have sex with him make sure its because you want to. And make sure that he understands that this makes this relationship alot more important than just hanging out once in a while. I came upon the same sort of situation and honestly if you realy care about him and you know he really cares about you then do what you think is right. This is a big step and you should make sure that when you think about him 1 year from now oyu still see yourself with him, otherwise its not worth it.

Pippy

>At Mon, 31 Dec 2001, Nicole wrote:
>>
>>I'm a virgin, but my boyfriend isn't. This bothers me to no end. It
>>bothers me that, if I do have sex with him, he'll be my first, but I
>>can't be his. I've spoken to him about this and he's well aware that it
>>bothers me; there's just nothing he can do about it.
>>
>>I was just wondering if anyone else had the same issues when they found
>>out that their boyfriends weren't virgins. Any advice on how to cope
>>with this and finally put it behind me? Or do I just have to wait for
>>more time to pass?
>>
>>If anyone has been in this situation, please tell me what I can do to
>>stop becoming so upset about it.
>>

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