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Re: boyfriend isn't a virgin

From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Fri, 4 Jan 2002 12:52:35 -0600 (CST)

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At Mon, 31 Dec 2001, Nicole wrote: >
>I'm a virgin, but my boyfriend isn't. This bothers me to no end. It
>bothers me that, if I do have sex with him, he'll be my first, but I
>can't be his. I've spoken to him about this and he's well aware that it
>bothers me; there's just nothing he can do about it.
>
>I was just wondering if anyone else had the same issues when they found
>out that their boyfriends weren't virgins. Any advice on how to cope
>with this and finally put it behind me? Or do I just have to wait for
>more time to pass?
>
>If anyone has been in this situation, please tell me what I can do to
>stop becoming so upset about it.
>
>Thanks.

Hi there, My b/f wasn't a virgin but I was when we decided to start having sex. It bothered me a bit, but he had only been with one person and it was years before, so I suppose in that way, it wasn't so bad. What helped me not be worried about it was thinking that when he was dating her, he didn't know me. But he knows me now, and I am the person he loves. So if you think of it that way, maybe it will help! Like the previous post said, you can't change that past, so live for the present and do what your heart tells you to do!

Kim

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