YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for October, 2001: Re: Help: Pain during sex for my young fiancee

Re: Help: Pain during sex for my young fiancee - how to overcome it?

From: Julie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 2 Oct 2001 16:49:01 -0500 (CDT)

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You could try a lubricant like KY Jelly or Astroglide. These will make intercourse much more comfortable if she is not lubricated enough herself. She is likely tensing up at the thought of more pain which is just making things worse. If things don't improve, I suggest she see a GYN for an exam. Hope this helps!

At Mon, 1 Oct 2001, Mir wrote: >
>I have recently wedded. My fiancee and I have sex 2 times per week; but
>she is in pain throughout. She has pain initially when the penis is
>inserted and then it lessens, but not pleasureable (burning throughout -
>she says). I feel awful that she has to go through this. I ask her if
>it gets better, she says, "...it was less pain than previous times, but
>still painful; almost no pleasure and it burns..." She was a virgin, so
>I expected some pain at the beginning, however, she (and I) worry that
>this will persist for a long time, "...until I have my first child...".
>
>Should I be doing something to lessen this? I do the foreplay thing for
>30+ minutes. SHE WILL NOT MASTERBATE - feels it is 'yukky'! I could do
>more hand / vibrator / shower massages, but even those have shown to be
>somewhat painful. I doubt that she has some illness.
>
>Does she just need to be stretched out over time with rubbing and
>different sized objects to expand the walls of the vagina?
>
>So far, we have only had 10-15 encounters, so it is still new.
>
>Thanks in advance for ANY help!!

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