YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for September, 2001: Re: getting hymen surgically removed

Re: getting hymen surgically removed

From: Robin (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat, 8 Sep 2001 17:27:28 -0500 (CDT)

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At Fri, 7 Sep 2001, Kyana wrote: >
>i wrote earlier about being too tight to have sex...the biggest
>suggestion was to get the surgurey done, of having my hymen
>removed...ouch! others said that he should just stick it in and get the
>pain over with.but the problem is i tense up so much that it won't
>fit....any suggestions on medicine i could get for that? if not, i will
>get the surgury (sigh) i guess...but the problem is i wont be 18 for
>another 9 months, and therefore because i m a minor need parental
>consent...i dont want to wait til i m 18 to have this done, but telling
>my mom i m sexually active (or at least want to be) wont be a good idea.
>i m in a mature relationship, but i really want to make love to show him
>that...so my other (main) question is there any suggestions i can tell
>my mom i need my hymen removed for another reason? or are tehre any
>other reasons it gets removed? please reply, thanks

Jessica,

If you are in a mature relationship, then having sex with someone to show this is not necessary. In a mature relationship there is love, honesty, and respect. If your boyfriend loves, respects, and is honest with you, what is there to show?

Becoming sexually is a mature responsibilty, so make sure this is something you want. You don't want to regret it.

Also, make sure you use a reliable method of birth control....especially condoms. You don't want to die from AIDS, or get an incurable STD.

-- Robin

-- ~Robin~

I'm not a Dr. or any type of Medical Professional. The information I share is based on what I have experienced personally or what I have learned.

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