YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for August, 2001: Re: I am too tight to have intercourse!

Re: I am too tight to have intercourse!

From: Jessica (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 30 Aug 2001 01:25:29 -0500 (CDT)

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At Wed, 29 Aug 2001, Kyana wrote: >
>I'm 17 and at age 15 when I was first fingered, only 1 fit. I hadn't
>been fingered since, until 6 months ago, and at that point only 1/2 of
>one fit, and now 2, ocassionaly 3. My boyfriend and I have tried sex, 3
>times, and it won't fit. It's like trying to fit a screwdriver into a
>pencil sharpener hole...impossible. I do tense up, not just with this
>situation, but with anything, even if I get a back massage. My gyno
>said try using super size tampons, and to try stretching it with
>fingers, which doesn't really work. (I do use tampons, and the first
>time I ever did it took an hour and a half before I could get it in...I
>was 13). Last time my boyfriend and I attempted, I tried using a muscle
>relaxing pill, but it barely did anything. My gyno said I may have to
>get my hymen removed, but the hole will still be too small, I think.
>Help!!! One more thing...I don't think I ever orgasmed, but I do know I
>get this feeling in my stomach that's different but not in a bad way.
>Lately when my boyfriend has fingered me I bleed after, is that my hymen
>slowly breaking? It's happened for just that day for the past 4 or 5
>times. But today, I bled like normal, but I have to pee lately a lot
>and every time I do I get that funny feeling back in my stomach. Please
>help!

Alright, I kinda had your problem too. I'm no doctor, but I do believe that if you ARE bleeding a little after he "fingers" you..I think it's because your hymen is breaking. It took me about a MONTH before me and my boyfriend could really have INtercourse. Don't rush it...it will happen....and it may take a couple days or weeks. If you do want to get rid of it quick, then I would suggest to grit your teeth, and really have your boyfriend stick it in there...it WILL hurt. Maybe a lot...maybe a little. Anyway, hope I was of some help to you.

PS...you may want to try some kind of lube jelly.

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I'm no doctor, but i have had many experiences with sex and the consequences of sex.

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