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Re: Please help answer this!From: Sarah (anonymous@obgyn.net)Tue, 29 May 2001 18:06:50 -0500 (CDT)
At Mon, 28 May 2001, krys wrote: > >Ok well I'm not comfortbale using tampons when on my period. I get >grossed out. >In regards to lubrication, I have no problem there. We just can't seem >to get anything in. Could there be something wrong with me? > >At Wed, 23 May 2001, Sarah wrote: >> >>At Wed, 23 May 2001, krys wrote: >>> >>>My boyfriend and I have not had sex yet. We fool around though, >>>touching and stuff. I've never had anything in me, I've never used >>>tampons or anything. >>>When my boyfriend tries to finger me, it doesn't seem to go in. He said >>>it felt like it went in a bit but then it felt like he was pressing on a >>>tounge or something. It's like something is blocking it. And it hurts >>>too. >>> >>>How can we get passed this problem? >> >>Your hymen probably just hasn't broken yet. When I had sex for the >>first time, it never hurt (at all ;-)) and I've been using tampons since >>just after I got my period when I was 12. Some of my good friends, on >>the other hand, who had never used tampons and weren't too comfortable >>with their bodies (or familiar, I should say), experienced discomfort. I >>recommend you try to use tampons, and if that hurts, try going to your >>family doctor for help inserting them. If there's a problem, she'll >>(let it be a woman..) let you know. Otherwise, the tampon exercise >>should break your hymen and you may experience *very* VERY light >>bleeding and then you should be fine and ready to upgrade to a fingers >>and then to a penis. You could also try penetration with your own >>fingers to see if you can 'get in' that way, saving time and money. Like >>opening a can of soda :) >>Good luck! >> >>ps- lubrication *may* also be an issue; make sure you're a slip'n'slide >> >>-- >>Sarah sarhmor@hotmail.com >> Well, if you've tried tampons and they haven't worked, or you just don't want to and have tried other things (ie - a penis, and/or fingers) and nothing works, then you should probably get checked out. If you're in the states, a free clinic might even do it if cost is a concern. I still say that you should get a bit more comfortable w/ yourself; maybe you're anxious or nervous and that's affecting things too.
-- Sarah sarhmor@hotmail.com
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