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Re: Please help answer this!
From: krys (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 28 May 2001 01:09:23 -0500 (CDT)
Ok well I'm not comfortbale using tampons when on my period. I get
grossed out.
In regards to lubrication, I have no problem there. We just can't seem
to get anything in. Could there be something wrong with me?
At Wed, 23 May 2001, Sarah wrote:
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>At Wed, 23 May 2001, krys wrote:
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>>My boyfriend and I have not had sex yet. We fool around though,
>>touching and stuff. I've never had anything in me, I've never used
>>tampons or anything.
>>When my boyfriend tries to finger me, it doesn't seem to go in. He said
>>it felt like it went in a bit but then it felt like he was pressing on a
>>tounge or something. It's like something is blocking it. And it hurts
>>too.
>>
>>How can we get passed this problem?
>
>Your hymen probably just hasn't broken yet. When I had sex for the
>first time, it never hurt (at all ;-)) and I've been using tampons since
>just after I got my period when I was 12. Some of my good friends, on
>the other hand, who had never used tampons and weren't too comfortable
>with their bodies (or familiar, I should say), experienced discomfort. I
>recommend you try to use tampons, and if that hurts, try going to your
>family doctor for help inserting them. If there's a problem, she'll
>(let it be a woman..) let you know. Otherwise, the tampon exercise
>should break your hymen and you may experience *very* VERY light
>bleeding and then you should be fine and ready to upgrade to a fingers
>and then to a penis. You could also try penetration with your own
>fingers to see if you can 'get in' that way, saving time and money. Like
>opening a can of soda :)
>Good luck!
>
>ps- lubrication *may* also be an issue; make sure you're a slip'n'slide
>
>--
>Sarah sarhmor@hotmail.com
>
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