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Re: Please help answer this!From: Sarah (anonymous@obgyn.net)Wed, 23 May 2001 17:33:49 -0500 (CDT)
At Wed, 23 May 2001, krys wrote: > >My boyfriend and I have not had sex yet. We fool around though, >touching and stuff. I've never had anything in me, I've never used >tampons or anything. >When my boyfriend tries to finger me, it doesn't seem to go in. He said >it felt like it went in a bit but then it felt like he was pressing on a >tounge or something. It's like something is blocking it. And it hurts >too. > >How can we get passed this problem? Your hymen probably just hasn't broken yet. When I had sex for the first time, it never hurt (at all ;-)) and I've been using tampons since just after I got my period when I was 12. Some of my good friends, on the other hand, who had never used tampons and weren't too comfortable with their bodies (or familiar, I should say), experienced discomfort. I recommend you try to use tampons, and if that hurts, try going to your family doctor for help inserting them. If there's a problem, she'll (let it be a woman..) let you know. Otherwise, the tampon exercise should break your hymen and you may experience *very* VERY light bleeding and then you should be fine and ready to upgrade to a fingers and then to a penis. You could also try penetration with your own fingers to see if you can 'get in' that way, saving time and money. Like opening a can of soda :) Good luck! ps- lubrication *may* also be an issue; make sure you're a slip'n'slide
-- Sarah sarhmor@hotmail.com
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