YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for April, 2001: Re: Size does matter!

Re: Size does matter!

From: Anja (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 19 Apr 2001 23:03:16 -0500 (CDT)

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Jennifer,

I had the same "problem" with my last boyfriend. I regularly had tears around my vagina, kinda like childbirth :-(

What we ended up doing was: Condoms helped a lot, as they are extremely smooth; use extra lubricant (we used "Slippery Stuff", which is exactly that and very, very good, or Astroglide), help him enter by "pointing" him in the right direction (to avoid any vigorous poking around) and make sure that no skin folds/hairs of yours get caught to avoid chafing; use more lube if you're at it longer; and, best of all, have an orgasm (or 2 ;-) before attempting penetration. Ideally through oral sex -> more lubrication. It'll relax your muscles and lessen the chance of cramping up. Also, make sure that you're healed before trying it again. Try varying positions: Maybe you will find some that change the angle of entry, putting less friction on areas that tend to be sore.

Also, I think there's a phase of "breaking in" or adapting - I was 31 and not inexperienced when I met Mr. Stud, but it still took a while to adapt to his dimensions.

Good luck, and have fun, Anja

At Thu, 19 Apr 2001, Jennifer wrote: >
>Hi! I had sex with my boyfriend a few days ago, and I discovered that
>his penis is a lot bigger than what I'm used to. My vagina is also
>rather small, to add to the problem. After we had sex, I was rather
>sore for a few days afterwards. I would like to have sex with him again
>(using condoms, of course), but I was wondering if his size is something
>that my body will get used to? Is there any exercizes that can help me
>to be larger in that aspect?

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