YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for March, 2001: Re: Wedding Night Apprehension

Re: Wedding Night Apprehension

From: Jennifer (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 13 Mar 2001 10:36:46 -0600 (CST)

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At Tue, 13 Mar 2001, Claudia Twisdale RN wrote: >
>First of all I stand up and applaud you both for waiting. It will be so
>much more special. If she has concerns she should discuss this with her
>GYN. However, I think when the time comes that everything will work out
>fine. The vagina stretches during sexual excitement.
>
>At Mon, 12 Mar 2001, Anonymous wrote:
>>
>>I am engaged to be married this summer. Both my fiance' and I are
>>virgins. I know that nothing has ever penetrated her, neither finger,
>>tampon, or other. She has voiced concern to me that she is afraid that
>>she will be too small for me on the night after our wedding. I have
>>never 'measured' myself, but don't feel that I am abnormally large. She
>>has small ear canals (that required tubes) and a small mouth (that
>>required a palate spreared), and said of her last Gyn visit that the
>>specula "hurt," and that she was told, or read, that it was not supposed
>>to. How possible is it that she will be too small for me, or I too
>>large for her? Is this something that a Gyn should have informed her of
>>at her last visit? Is a small vagina something that the doctor would
>>notice and remark: "You should know that you have a small vagina, you
>>will need to do ___ whenever you are ready to have sex." If she went to
>>the Gyn and asked, could she tell, quantitatively, if she had a small
>>vagina or not? What can be done if this is the case, and what can I do
>>if we get to that night and it seems too small. Please advise, I
>>wouldn't know what to do if I hurt her.
>>
>>Thank You,
>>VirginGroom

It probably will hurt. Just take things slow and use plenty of lubrication (KY jelly, Astroglide). I think it's great that you waited too. Best of luck with your future lives together!!

--
Jennifer

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