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Re: Wedding Night Apprehension
From: Claudia Twisdale RN (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 13 Mar 2001 05:04:45 -0600 (CST)
First of all I stand up and applaud you both for waiting. It will be so
much more special. If she has concerns she should discuss this with her
GYN. However, I think when the time comes that everything will work out
fine. The vagina stretches during sexual excitement.
At Mon, 12 Mar 2001, Anonymous wrote:
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>I am engaged to be married this summer. Both my fiance' and I are
>virgins. I know that nothing has ever penetrated her, neither finger,
>tampon, or other. She has voiced concern to me that she is afraid that
>she will be too small for me on the night after our wedding. I have
>never 'measured' myself, but don't feel that I am abnormally large. She
>has small ear canals (that required tubes) and a small mouth (that
>required a palate spreared), and said of her last Gyn visit that the
>specula "hurt," and that she was told, or read, that it was not supposed
>to. How possible is it that she will be too small for me, or I too
>large for her? Is this something that a Gyn should have informed her of
>at her last visit? Is a small vagina something that the doctor would
>notice and remark: "You should know that you have a small vagina, you
>will need to do ___ whenever you are ready to have sex." If she went to
>the Gyn and asked, could she tell, quantitatively, if she had a small
>vagina or not? What can be done if this is the case, and what can I do
>if we get to that night and it seems too small. Please advise, I
>wouldn't know what to do if I hurt her.
>
>Thank You,
>VirginGroom
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