YOUNG-WOMEN Messages for March, 2001: Re: Virgin-Problem having sex

Re: Virgin-Problem having sex

From: Gina (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 12 Mar 2001 15:46:21 -0600 (CST)

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Kim,

it might be that you're involuntarily clenching down once the penis touches the entrance. When I got together with mu current boyfriend, we had a related problem: He is huge. Things went nowhere, even though I was definitely "in the mood". Try going step by step: Have an orgasm before you try penetration. Oral, manual, masturbation, whatever gets you going. It absolutely helped me. Then, let him insert one finger, then 2, then 3, going in and out (and if he has any imagination, he can combine this with all sorts of pleasant things ;-). That way, you and your body will know that things this size WILL fit. Also, when he tries to enter with his penis, make him go in/out in very small increments, kinda like teasing his way in. It asks for self-control on his part, but it will relax your muscles and help to spread the lubricant (which you should use anyway, even if you feel well aroused, just in case).

Have fun! Gina

At Mon, 12 Mar 2001, Jen wrote: >
>At Mon, 12 Mar 2001, Kim wrote:
>>
>>Hi guys,
>>
>>Ok, so I'm 21 and I tried having sex for the first time this past week.
>>I think I was pretty relaxed and I was definitely ready but my boyfriend
>>and I couldn't get his penis into my Vagina. Is this normal? Has this
>>happened to anyone else? We tried several different positions and
>>lubrication and it just wasn't happening. What should I do?
>>
>>--
>>Kim
>>
>Kim,
>I can remember how painful sex was the first 10 times I tried with my
>boyfriend. I'm sure your boyfriend will be gentle with you, and
>eventually he'll be able to get a little more and a little more into
>you. My advice is be patient, don't get discouraged, and it WILL happen
>eventually.
>
>--
>Jen
>

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