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Re: still a virgin...helpFrom: anonymous@obgyn.netMon, 17 Jul 2000 17:48:38 -0500 (CDT)
At Mon, 17 Jul 2000, ASH wrote: > >Hii, I am a young woman and a still a virgin at 23. >I have a steady relationship from the past 2yrs but even today i feel i >am not yet ready for sex. The moment my boyfriend tries to have >intercourse I backaway, i fear pain, and I feel my muscles immeidately >tightning..how should i psyche myself for this?..if i don't i am sure my >Boyfriend will leave me..please help i am very depressed. You shouldn't let your BF dictate your life for you. I am 23 years old and I thought I needed to have sex to make my BF stay with me. I didn't want to be known as the tease. I am married now, not to the same BF and I so regret the day I lost my virginity. I love my husband very much and I wish that he could have been the one I shared myself with. I am not taking a religous point of view here, because for one I am not a christian. I just feel that when your so overwhelmed with constant pressure from someone else telling you this is what you should do, you just might do it even if your really not sure. In any case, I suggest to you that you and your boyfriend sit down and discuss the responsibilies of sex, (i.e., emotional, physical (pregnancy) and etc.). You need to take a step back, by yourself, and decide for yourself if this is what you want to do.
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