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Re: tubal ligationFrom: anonymous@obgyn.netSun, 24 Oct 1999 06:54:09 -0500 (CDT)
At 09:35 PM 10/23/99 -0500, you wrote: >At Sat, 24 Jul 1999, Traci wrote: >> >>I am 29 yrs. old with 3 beautiful children. After I had my last child >>9-26-98, I had a tubal ligation. Throughout my pregnancy I was >>pressured to have a tubal done by some friends and family. People often >>frown on someone having 3 or plus children. Unfortunatly I listened and >>had it done. From the very next day after having it done I was full of >>regret and very angry with myself for getting it done. My husband and I >>own our own business in a small town and can't afford to have a reversal >>done. The only thing that gives me any hope at all is the fact that if >>it is Gods will for me to have another baby, a tubal ligation can't stop >>Gods hand. I would like to hear from anyone who is feeling the same or >>who has gotten pregnant after a tubal ligation. Thank you. > >-- just a thought--- If you couldn't afford a reversal---- how could you afford another child? I think sometimes people concentrate on what they now can't get rather than on what they have. Maybe talking to someone about this--hospital social worker, minister, counselor--would help you concentrate on the actual children you have and not on the imaginary children you won't have---- an might not have ever had, either with or without the tubal. Life is filled with decisions, and often people find themselves second guessing the big decisions. I can only urge you to look to the future and to the joy you have with your children. If you have read the posts on this forum very long, you will know there are many women who envy you and the life you have with your kids. One thing, since you talk about God's will, perhaps you might pray for peace with your decision, so that you can enjoy you life more fully. Best wishes,
Dee
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