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shy and unsureFrom: anonymous@obgyn.netFri, 11 Jun 1999 23:54:52 EDT
Hi this is the first time that I have used this forum to post a personal question. I have been married for almost a year now and as far as my sexual life goes (well it is almost non-existent). This is not a problem on my husband's part however, but mine. I am a very conservative person and I was brought up in a family that did not talk about sex. I know this is stupid (especially since I am in nursing school) but I am not very comfortable with the whole sexual aspect. I love my husband and I know that he loves me, he would have to if he stays with me because of this. Not only am I very shy but when we do have intercourse it is extremely painful for me at first. After I am well lubricated it is not as painful...but afterwards I am in alot of pain for awhile. It hurts to sit down sometimes. Is this because we do not have sex often enough? My husband is not rough in bed and we do not do any kinky things. He is somewhat blessed, so maybe this is the problem. I just cring when he is "in the mood" because I know that I am going to hurt for awhile and then it will ease off, but afterwards I hurt sometimes for a day or so. What are your suggestions? I am extremely embarrassed asking these types of questions but I don't know what else to do. Any suggestions on how to make myself more willing to be romantic would be greatly appreciated as well. I don't want my husband to be disappointed the rest of his life but I don't like the pain either. We want to have children but if we can't have sex, then that will not be an option. Thanks in advance for your understanding and explanations. CT
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