WOMENS-HEALTH Messages for January, 1998: Re: Problems with orgasms

Re: Problems with orgasms

From: Harvey S. Marchbein, M.D. (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 30 Jan 1998 17:02:55 -0600 (CST)

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At Fri, 30 Jan 1998, Angela29 wrote: >
>Hello,
>
>My friend just called me in tears and explained to me her situation. I
>thought I would post it here and see if someone could give me some info
>to tell her. It seems she and her husband were having normal sex with
>orgasms. Then, I guess they started having problems, and weren't having
>sex as much. Needless to say, she started "pleasuring" herself (to put
>it mildly) with a personal massager. Now, she complains of not being
>able to have an orgasm with her husband. I explained that she could be
>trying too hard, or have a lot of stress, etc. She thinks she has done
>something to her sex organs even though she has no pain, or discomfort,
>etc. To reassure her, is it possible she did hurt herself, or is she
>really just trying too hard? I know this is an awkward question and I
>thank you for your response!
>
>Angela

Angela,

Tell your friend that her finest sex organ is between her ears, not between her legs. She didn't ruin anything. The fact that she is orgasmic tells us this may be stress between the two of them, maybe some anger too. Reading between the lines in your note, it seems that way to me.

This may require sex counselling and is fixable. This is where Dr. Ruth and Masters and Johnson made a name for themselves.

Tell them good luck and get that counselling soon. It WILL pay off.

--
Harvey S. Marchbein, M.D. FACOG
OBGYN.net U.S. Representative, New York
Great Neck, New York
http://www.obgyn.net/states/bios/marchbein.htm
http://www.obgyn.net/women/advisors/harveym.htm

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