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Re: Not Pregnant...Again :(, conflicting INFO?????

From: Anne (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 14 Jul 1997 10:12:19 -0500 (CDT)


At Mon, 14 Jul 1997, Linda Morrison-Boczar, MD, MBA, FACOG wrote: >
>At Sun, 13 Jul 1997, Anne wrote:
>>
>>Dear Docs,
>>
>>After another month I am not pregnant again.We had intercourse days 9
>>thru 18 and I took 100mg of Clomid on days 5-9. I am pretty sure I
>>ovulated on day 15. We are not having any luck. I am going to call my
>>doc tomorrow and see where we stand. We have been trying for 8 months.
>>Is there anything I should ask about? My periods have been getting
>>worse- ie more heavy, more painful and a few days longer. But I am not
>>sure that that matters, they still are tolerable. I will try to make an
>>appt for next week and was wondering what I should ask and if we should
>>have a list of things to go over...any suggestions? This is very
>>depressing and frustrating.Well thanks.
>>
>>--
>>Anne N.
>>
>Anne,
>When you said you had intercourse days 9 to 18, did you mean everyday??
>If so, you are defeating your purpose. Men cannot rebuild sperm that
>quickly. By having intercourse every day, by the 2nd or 3rd day, all
>the sperm are immature or the count is very low. So, if you ovulate on
>day 13 or 14 with your Clomid, the sperm count would not be adequate on
>Day 13 if your husband had ejaculated on days 9, 10, 11, 12, and 13. If
>you know approximately what day you ovulate on, or you use the ovulation
>kits, try to time intercourse every other day, starting two to three
>days only prior to ovulation. And don't try TOO hard. The stress and
>anxiety of an infertility workup can defeat the purpose. Mother nature
>considers a stressful environment not a good time to bring a baby into
>the world. I know it is easier said than done, but try, try, try to
>relax and worry less. The stress will ADD to your infertility. You
>don't smoke cigarettes, do you?? Women who smoke are less likely to be
>successful in an infertility workup than women who do not smoke. Good
>luck.
>
>--
>Linda Morrison--Boczar, MD, MBA, FACOG
>Private Practice
>Former Faculty - Asst. Professor Dept of Ob/Gyn
>

Dear Dr. Linda,

Yes we had intercourse everyday days 9-18 and twice on days 14 and 15. But now I am confused...after reading a prior post it said that actually intercourse the 5 days prior to and on the day of ovulation were the best for concieving. Is this wrong? My husband is a veterinarian and we have done our own "sperm analysis" on his microscope before, for consecutive days and they(the sperm) seem very viable and plentiful even after 3 or 4 days...we figured we would give it a whirl and make sure we hit the 5 days prior to and on ovulation. I am a little confused. I have never and still don't smoke, drink or over eat. I am 5'2" 120 lbs and in pretty good shape. My OB actually thought I was too skinny last time I was pregnant( 130lbs at 38 weeks) so this last year I have tried to gain a little weight. I have tried doing everything possible to make it easier to concieve with no luck. Any suggestions as to questions to ask my doc? Any advice would be welcome, thank you.

--
Anne N.



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