Re: VAGINALIRREGULARITY: Something isn't right with my vagina
From: JJMMBB (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 30 May 2008 23:07:47 -0500 (CDT)
Lizzie,
While I don't think you should be panicking, I DEFINITELY think you need
to go to the doctor far sooner than September, at the very least for
peace of mind. If you think something MIGHT be wrong, it is best to
have it checked. If things don't look as they should, a gynecologist
will know that right away upon looking and she will be able to start
helping you. Also, I'm sure your Mom would understand and try to help
you - it is not as if you've done anything wrong. BUT in the event that
she wouldn't, being 19 you can go to the doctor on your own if that is
better for you.
Good luck.
At Thu, 29 May 2008, Lizzie wrote:
>
>I'm really worried about my vagina, I'm certain something must be wrong,
>but I have social phobia and I'm so insecure discussing my reproductive
>organs as it is, that I'm absolutely terrified to talk to my mom about
>it and I don't think she'd take me seriously anyways.
>
>I'm 19, and I'm a virgin, but I've worn a tampon once before. And up
>until now, that had brought me comfort that everything must be okay,
>because I was able to get it in. But I've now noticed that I can't seem
>to get a finger in, and I'm scared to try a tampon again. When I look
>at it, it doesn't look like any picture I've ever seen. I can see the
>urethra, but I don't see a second opening. I can see where it's
>supposed to be, but it looks more like there could be a tiny opening on
>either side of a solid mass of flesh (or twin masses of flesh merged
>together at the middle) that is sensitive if I press on it. It
>basically looks like my vagina is plugged by something. I have no idea
>what it could be. I've tried searching everything I know of, and I'm
>getting really scared. I was hoping it would just go away, but it's
>not. I still have regular periods and everything, so there must be an
>opening somewhere for the blood to come out, but something is taking up
>the rest of the opening.
>
>Does anyone have any idea what this might be? I'm going back to the
>OBGYN (I've never had an exam by anyone, ever, so no, she hasn't looked
>at it) in September. Is this something that can probably wait until
>then, or is it panic time and I should be running out to have it
>checked?