WOMENS-HEALTH Messages for May, 2007: PREGNANCY: Stressed about pregnancy and paternity

PREGNANCY: Stressed about pregnancy and paternity

From: islandbabie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 10 May 2007 17:54:41 -0500 (CDT)

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I am 29 years old and stressed out from a SOMEWHAT unplanned pregnancy. I have been sleeping with my boyfriend for over a year. We have never used any type of birth control and have never been pregnant until now. The thing is, which I am so embarrassed to say is that I had sex with another man on the sixth of April. I know that there is no for sure way to know paternity without a test, but this situation is stressing me out beyond belief. My timeline is as follows: First day last period March 29, Sex with man that is not boyfriend on April 6th, and sex with boyfriend very regularly at least every other day. When I checked the date of conception online it said April 12th and since I am pretty much regular I was satisfied believing that it is my boyfriends baby. Then after speaking with the basically one-night stand guy he told me that he has 11 children which really messed me up.( My boyfriend has three children) My friend says that she thinks that it the other guys baby because she says that obviously my boyfriend and I are not compatible seeing as how we both have other children and been having sex for over a year now and no pregnancy. Is that common for two people to just not be compatible for baby making? I am contemplating abortion because I cannot have a strangers baby. The one night stand and I have only had sex once( I know all it takes is once) but he did not pull out or anything. And please tell me if this is a factor. I am also very embarrassed to say this, but after the encounter I called my friend and she told me that I should bathe in cold water to close up the vagina. I even went as far as putting an ice cube inside my vagina. Once again I know this is a crazy question and nothing can be for sure without certain tests, but I think I am going insane with all the drama surrounding this pregnancy.

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