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SEXUALTY: Wife having problems, please help

From: 7UP7UP (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue, 3 Apr 2007 09:00:56 -0500 (CDT)


Hi, First, I’d like to say thanks to anyone that replies. Me and my wife are very frustrated over our current situation and we are the kind of people who worry over every little thing. She has been meeting with a mid wife, at an OBGYN clinic, and the mid wife has been seeking help from the doctors there. So she is being cared for.I just wanted to know what I could do, because I love my wife and we want her to be healthy asap. Last year my wife had her annual pap exam, and had been burning a bit while peeing and had a few infections the past few years…nothing serious, just the normal yeast infections I believe. So with that annual pap, they discovered through tests that she had, sorry if I don’t know the full details, at the time we were not married, but the test came back saying she had something and that a cure would be that freezing thing that froze the cells. Whatever it was, I guess it can lead to cancer, and I think I have read about this type of thing being pretty common, because another friend of ours had it done. Anyway, she went back a week later and had the procedure done. They said she’d have cramps and she did. They said to wait a month or so to have sex, we did. Upon having sex, it was very painful for her, so we stopped. We waited another month and still it burned her and was quite painful. She scheduled visit after visit with her doctor and this doctor just thought she had a bladder infection and claimed the reason she was in pain during sex was because she was “raw.” They recommended a lubricant; still it burned/pained her. It got a few months before our marriage and we were meeting with the preacher. He suggested we take until the wedding, that we sleep in separate rooms or even move out. We did sleep in separate rooms and stopped sex. We thought that after a few months of no sex that she would be better, the wedding night came, and despite being the greatest day in our life together, she still was in quite a bit of pain during sex. When we returned from our honeymoon, we decided to seek another doctor, because this one wasn’t having success in curing her. At this OBGYN closer to where she worked found that she had some bacterial infection, sometimes caused by wiping from the butt area across the vagina, you get it. So they gave her a pill for so many days and then prescribed something that is usually used on coldsores to use on her outer lips of her vagina because when the mid wife put a cue tip there, she said that was an area of pain. She used that a week and took the pill, and we waited a few days, had sex, no change. CONTINUED



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