WOMENS-HEALTH Messages for September, 2003: Re: Decreased Libido in Myself is Ruining My Relationship

Re: Decreased Libido in Myself is Ruining My Relationship

From: a (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 12 Sep 2003 12:07:52 -0500 (CDT)

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You're only 16! You're not supposed to be having a sex life at this age. You're supposed to be concentrating on your classes in school and getting good grades and making plans for your future not living your future now!

If you are concerned that something is medically wrong with you then make an appointment with your doctor and get a thorough exam. If you're going to pretend to be a grown-up then act like one and take responsibility for yourself.

If this sounds harsh, I make no apologies. Before anyone jumps on this post and starts flaming me I want you to take a good hard look at yourself and your own life and if you can honestly say that the age of 16 is a good age to be troubled with "middle-age" problems then fine... let the 16 year-olds age themselves to 50 before they graduate high school but then stop whining that you're only 16!

At Thu, 11 Sep 2003, Meg wrote: >
>I am a 16 year old girl and I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 and
>a hlf years. For the first 1 and a half or so of our relationship, the
>sex was great and VER frequent and passionate, but in the past year or
>so, I have lost all of my libido. I have been on the pill since we
>first started dating and had no problems in the beginging, so I don't
>think that that is the problem. (I'm now on the patch.) I'm also
>bisexual, but I've had urges or desires for sex with any men or women. I
>am still attracted to many women and some men including my boyfriend,
>but i just don't get horny (to put it in simple terms.) It is ruining my
>reltionship with my boyfriend because our sexlife used to be so
>passionate and loving and now i feel very frigid and cold because i just
>don't want to make love or have sex. We've tried to spice things up and
>we've tried a couple other things, but nothing seems to help...I'm 16,
>and shouldn't be having libido problems already, should I? please reply
>and tell me anything you can think of that might be wrong. Thanks a
>bunch

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