|
Re: Doctor's odd behavior (ladies comment please)
From: Jenn (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 11 Apr 2003 23:01:51 -0500 (CDT)
At Thu, 3 Apr 2003, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote:
>
>it sounds to me like he is looking for a patient to have an affair with
>and is testing you. I would switch because it would be really hard for me
>to be comfortable with him. Apparently he is attracted to you.
>
>On Thu, 3 Apr 2003 13:03:12 -0600 susanl@optonline.net writes:
>> I would switch immediately if a doctor said anything like that to me.
>>
>>I know that you would prefer not to switch BUT This guy is very un->professional. If he's thinking about you wanting him there is a really good >chance that he's not doing his job well anyway!
>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "anonymous" <anonymous@medispecialty.com>
>> To: "Multiple recipients of list WOMENS-HEALTH"
>> <womens-health@mail.medispecialty.com>
>> Sent: Thursday, April 03, 2003 13:33
>> Subject: Doctor's odd behavior (ladies comment please)
>>
>> > Usually I read posts about women being uncomfortable about seeing
>> a male
>> > gyn. The twist to my story is I think my gyn is uncomfortable
>> with me-
>> > like he thinks I'm going to seduce him or something. At my exam
>> > yesterday, he suddenly said "I only think of my patients as a
>> > doctor/patient professional relationship. If I got involved with
>> one,
>> > my wife would cut my d*** off!"
>> >
>> > Needless to say I was shocked at the graphic words. I am a
>> > professional, ladylike, married woman who does not know how to
>> flirt
>> > with anyone. Later, while he was sitting writing notes, I was
>> passing
>> > the time looking around the room. My gaze fell to his lap and he
>> looked
>> > up at me, feeling very uncomfortable and changed his position. I
>> wasn't
>> > thinking about anything at the time.
>> >
>> > I think he is a good doctor and I really don't want to switch. I
>> don't
>> > really want to confront him about this. What do you think of
>> this? Am I
>> > making something out of nothing?
>> >
>>
--
Jenn
|
|
![[ Women's Health Forum ]](http://www.obgyn.net/images_women/wh-forum.gif)