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Re: PLEASE RESPOND - D & C Attention SUE
From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 4 Apr 2003 01:53:42 -0600 (CST)
I think I agree with Amanda. Firstly we don't need to be so passionate
as to decide for others whether their decisions were ridiculous or
otherwise. Secondly, life does have an ugly face and we may just have
been lucky to not have seen it during our pregnancies. As far as her
questions are concerned, she does look concerned about her health, which
also hints that she realizes what she has done. Hence her question
about how long to wait before conceiving again may be just to know when
her body will be back to normal after going through so much of abuse.
And then she has used condoms regularly .... i think having abortions
is not her hobby afterall.
At Thu, 3 Apr 2003, Amanda wrote:
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>Not ridiculous ... unfortunate ... there are lots of reasons why
>people 'can't' go through with pregnancies, and when circumstances
>change they then see it as a possibility. I don't know that she wants
>to get pregnant straight away anyway - I think she was just asking how
>long it is best to wait - perhaps she thought it might be 12 months or
>something.
>
>By the way - I was on the pill and using condoms when I fell pregnant
>with both my children. With the first, the condom broke and the pill
>must have not been effective and with the other there was no explanation
>- just a miracle... so it can happen even when you are trying so hard
>for it not. I am lucky that I was married and had a life where I could
>bring up children ... some are not. We also have to remember that some
>people have sex for pleasure, not just to fall pregnant ... and in my
>eyes, that is not a sin.
>
>At Thu, 3 Apr 2003, Jill wrote:
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>>and that's your opinion. I agree with Sue. She should have been more
>>careful..she had 2 abortions and now she wants to conceive?? ridiculous.
>>
>>At Thu, 3 Apr 2003, Amanda wrote:
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>>>She said she used condoms ... don't be so judgmental - it can happen by
>>>accident. And please don't tell anyone they SHOULD be doing something
>>>... so many people who have never made a mistake on this site.
>>>
>>>At Thu, 3 Apr 2003, Sue wrote:
>>>>
>>>>you should have used birth control
>>>>
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