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Re: ABBY Please read..

From: Abby (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri, 27 Dec 2002 07:11:16 -0600 (CST)


At Wed, 25 Dec 2002, Carmela wrote: >
>At Wed, 25 Dec 2002, Maxine wrote:
>>
>>>Abby, Please don't be hard on Maxine. I know what she's talking about
>cause I've had my share of ungrateful uncaring doctors. I use to have
>men doctors and none of them showed not once ounce of compassion however
>now that I have a female GYN I feel much better and my relationship with
>my doctor is beautiful. What a HUGE difference from when I had male
>doctors. If you want a male physican fine however some of us feel much
>better and comfortable with a female physican.
>
>You weren't there when Maxine gave her doctor the Christmas card so how
>do you know how he reacted why do you find it so hard to believe some
>physicans can get uncomfortable with the receiving of gifts and cards.
>Don't doubt Maxine cause I've been there too. Abby you don't know
>Maxine's doctor and how he reacts do you? Of course not. As far as
>postpartum checks and other check ups the doctor is suppose to exam the
>patient and there is no excuse as to why he or she wouldn't want to.
>Good money is being paid for his service. He should then deliver. Again
>if you want to throw money away with just talking fine however some of
>us would like to get our money's worth out of a check up no matter what
>it is.

>Carmela Espinoza

Carmela, I'm sorry if you misunderstood. I did say Maxine's doctor was ungracious about the card, and I compared his bad behavior to my favorable experience simply to point out the difference in what one should expect. I never said she did not experience what happened. But I do still think she should clear the air on why she didn't have a physical exam this time. There must be a reason for it. If he's not doing his job ,as you say, then why not report him to the state licensing board? Do you have private insurance, Medicaid/Medicare, or do you pay cash for his services? Doctors do get audited ,so if he's always taking your money, but never does any exams, he'll be found out and charged with insurance fraud.

And, your gender bias has no place on this forum. Would you like to be turned down for a job or promotion because you're a female?






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