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Re: Virginity in Islam part II - Kristy

From: Abigail (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat, 28 Sep 2002 15:24:01 -0500 (CDT)


Kristy:

The poster asked (for very good reason as it turns out) for a Muslim response.

You responded with a flippant, ethnocentric response.

I responded to you that maybe you should let a Muslim answer as the poster had wanted and gave you reasons why I felt you were being flippant and ethnocentric. The issue is much deeper and important than you were giving it justice.

1. We do not know that this is a woman asking the question at all.

2. We do not know whether this is a Muslim asking the question.

3. Maybe...just maybe, it is a non-Muslim male interested in a Muslim female and thinking of a sexual relationship.

I'll finish in part two.

At Sat, 28 Sep 2002, Kristy wrote: >
>Clare,
>
>Very well said. I appreciate it.
>
>Abigail,
>
>Thanks for the info but as I said before what I said is not just
>based on my personal experience.
>
>I do however have a question for you. Do you think it's
>possible for women of the Muslim descent to fall down even in
>her own house and break the hymen (and that's if she's a
>virgin)? If that is the case and she tells her prospective
>husband the truth that it broke when she fell how is it that she
>is going to die? I'm not sure I understand that. Also, even
>women that are not of muslim descent or religious beliefs have
>asked the same question that this woman has asked here.
>
>Dr. von Almen, if you are reading this what is your thought on
>Abigail's info. Also could you pls define virginity for us in
>relation to the hymen as to whether the breakage of the hymen
>can cause a loss of virginity. I've always known as fact from
>the drs here and even my own dr and my mother that you don't
>lose your virginity until you have actual sex with a man.
>
>Thanks everyone for your thoughts,
>
>=====
>Kristy :)
>
>http://www.geocities.com/sokokl/kristyspersonalpage.html
>
>Hoping to be a nurse soon but for now just a Medical Secretary who does a lot of learning from reading on the Net, books, my dr(s), as well as sharing my own personal experiences.
>
>http://sbc.yahoo.com

--
Abigail





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