Re: can he tell ?
From: L (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 28 Aug 2002 08:21:06 -0500 (CDT)
I absolutely agree. It's fabulous you are taking charge of your
fertility instead of relying on someone else. With the attitude you
describe, i don't think he's worth the effort.
P.S. My first child was a condom baby - it fell off - along came my
daughter.
At Tue, 27 Aug 2002, Joyce wrote:
>
>No-there is no way for him to tell. And I admire you for taking the
>responsibility of sex, however young you may be. But am concerned....if
>you can't tell your bf everything now,....why are you with him? It won't
>change, and if you have to do something behind his back to protect you
>AND him, is not good for you. I hope you reconsider! Seeing someone who
>doesn't have a respectful or decent outlook about your future, is not
>someone I would like to be with, and it is not respect... For him to
>worry about mood swings more than you getting pregnant, sounds like he
>has a problem with priorities.
>Hope it all works out for you.{BTW-If one gives you mood swings, merely
>go to your dr and get another brand. There are many choices and you
>don't have to have side effects]
>J.
>
>At Tue, 27 Aug 2002, young wrote:
>>
>>this may seem a little strange, but i'm just curious about something. my
>>boyfriend and i (both 16) recently started having sex, always with a
>>condom. we don't do it a lot, about once every two weeks. i've been
>>thinking about getting on the pill, but he doesn't like the idea. some
>>of our friends have been on it, and turned into jekyl and hyde with
>>their mood swings. what i am curious about is that if i go to planned
>>parenthood and get on the pill, is there anything he might notice about
>>my body that will let him know i had an exam and got on the pill ? i
>>don't like doing this behind his back, but at the same time i know i am
>>way too young to be a mom. i've watched the movie about the first
>>visit, but just wondering what will be different physically ? i have a
>>good idea what goes on before, during and after, just wondering if he
>>could tell that i went, and how ?
>>
>>--
>>young, but careful
>>
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