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Re: here we go againFrom: HI (anonymous@obgyn.net)Thu, 15 Aug 2002 00:04:27 -0500 (CDT)
At Wed, 14 Aug 2002, anonymous@obgyn.net wrote: > >At Tue, 13 Aug 2002, jane wrote: >> >>my new boyfriend and i have gotten along great for the last six months. >>i recently told him that it was almost time for my annual. he told me >>flat out (not violently) that he did not like the idea of anyone >>touching me down there. i'm not sure what to do. he is dead set >>against me going and becomes very moody and quiet when i try to talk >>about it ? does anyone have any suggestions ? by the way, my do is >>female, so that isn't an issue. just me going in general. > I'm not going to sit here and try to think of reasons why he feels the way he feels. But what I am going to say it is that it's YOUR health that he's playing with. If I was in your situation I would tell him straight out that he doesn't have a say in the matter. Go and get your exam with or without his consent, which you DO NOT NEED. You and he both are going to live in major regret if something that could be detected with this exam is over looked and allowed to possibly turn into a life threatening situation just because your boyfried doesn't 'like the idea of someone touching you down there.' Tell him all the risks of not getting the exam and ask him if he is 'comfortable' with that. And, I think if he is willing to gamble with what could possibly be your life, than he isn't worth the trouble.
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