WOMENS-HEALTH Messages for March, 2002: Re: no orgasms

Re: no orgasms

From: Anna (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 27 Mar 2002 22:38:03 -0600 (CST)

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For most people, sex is an activity that needs getting used to. At some point, you figure it out, and you feel so silly for not having "gotten" it sooner. But it is your responsibility to get there - and if things aren't working, you need to change them. The best way to find out how your body works is to explore it. Dare I say it - masturbation. Don't force it, but find out what you like, and then take it from there. Also, have you addressed this topic with your boyfriend? Does he know that you don't have orgasms, and if so, does he care? If not, you either have communication issues, or he is not really interested in how you feel, and in both cases, there'd better be some changes or you might want to reconsider being in this for the long run. BTW, there are plenty of books out there that "teach" you how to have an orgasm and how to have more fulfilling sex. Take an afternoon and browse your local Barnes&Nobles.

Good luck, Anna

At Wed, 27 Mar 2002, ja wrote: >
>I am a 19 yeah old student and my boyfriend and I have been dating for
>the past three years and having sex for two, (we are now engaged) I have
>never had an orgasm from him in any way, (I would say I have never had
>one at all except that i do think that I have had some in my sleep) is
>there any suggestions he is the man I intend on marrying and I would
>like to have an orgasm with him. Also is it possible to have orgasms
>just through contracting the muscles in your pelvis and vaginal area?
>Because this is how I think I am having mine in my sleep. Well you tell
>me if I have it is a feeling like no other very intense and of course it
>feels very nice and afterwards I fell somewhat dizzy.

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