Re: A Bit Frightened by some recent posts here...
From: dbb (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon, 4 Dec 2000 06:39:18 -0500
A good shower is really all that is necessary. No douche or deodorants the
day of exam. It could mask something that needs attention. Some recommend no
sex night before, others say doesn't matter. I abstain, just in case.
-----Original Message-----
From: anonymous@obgyn.net [mailto:anonymous@obgyn.net Behalf
Of Suzy
Sent: Monday, December 04, 2000 1:55 AM
To: Multiple recipients of list WOMENS-HEALTH
Subject: Re: A Bit Frightened by some recent posts here...
This sounds weird, but cosmetically thinking.. what's appropriate??
I've always wondered (i've never seen a gyn) what's the easiest ways to
groom/prepare for an exam that best helps the doctor??
any ideas?
At Sun, 3 Dec 2000, Amanda wrote:
>
>This may sound harsh, but my advise is to suck it up. Geeze, if a
>pelvic exam is the worst thing to happen to you, consider yourself
>lucky. It's not as bad as being raped, beaten, tortured....put this in
>perspective...millions of women worldwide have this done, to PREVENT
>other, more horrific things from happening. Trust me, a pelvic exam
>ain't nothin' compared to what you might have to endure if you do not
>take precautions....kind of like treating a cavity before it turns into
>a root canal.
>
>You'll be fine.
>
>At Sun, 3 Dec 2000, MB wrote:
>>
>>~Hello Again~
>>
>>I recently posted here - just yesterday, I think - thanking everyone
>>here for the helpful information I've read during my months of 'lurking'
>>here.
>>
>>At 33 years of age, I have finally made the decision to see a gyn. After
>>reading several posts re: pain during exams, especially for virgins, my
>>anxiety has turned into borderline fear. The reasons for a pelvic exam
>>to be more difficult for a virgin make perfect sense. I guess my
>>question is this: Is there anything I can do prior to the exam to
>>prepare for it to make things a bit easier? I know some of my
>>anxiety/fear stems from fear of the unknown, yet I'm also a bit of a
>>coward!
>>
>>Thank you.
>>
>>--
>>~MB~
>>