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Re: OK...Now I'm wondering what goes on at the GYNO??From: jackie (anonymous@obgyn.net)Wed, 29 Nov 2000 17:05:20 -0600 (CST)
Every Exam is different but the following is what I have experienced. I know this response is long but I just want to be helpful. I am 26 and have been to the OBGYN 6 times. I have been to 2 different Dr’s. I only go to the OBGYN so I ask that they do a complete checkup since I don’t see a GP. I too was scared when I first went. I actually canceled 2 appointments before I actually went, I was 20 my first time. It may not be the most fun thing you do in your life but it is very important. My e-mail is on the bottom of the post. Don’t hesitate to write me direct to ask more questions. I too have asked a lot of questions and done a lot of research. I have had more experiences that I haven’t included but would be glad to pass on to you. Also e-mail me after the exam and let me know how it went. When I first arrive they have me give a urine sample. They also want me to empty my bladder which makes the exam easier. Then the nurse takes me to the room. Since this is your first exam they may have you meet with the doctor before you go to the room. Usually though they take you right to the room. She checks my blood pressure and weight. Then she asks me to completely remove all clothing including my bra and underwear and put on a cloth gown. This is the part that I always dreaded especially my first time. Although I am comfortable with my body, I just don’t like the concept of a stranger seeing me naked. Just don’t think to much about it and you will be OK. Normally at this time the nurse asks if I would like a chaperone present, since my Dr is male. I do not use a chaperone but I will explain why later. When the Dr. comes in he begins by taking a medical history. The first Dr I went to had the nurse take my history. My present Dr does it himself. After this he has me get up onto the table. As I mentioned they do a full checkup so he starts by checking my lymph nodes both on the neck and under the arms. Now he does the basics, looking at the eyes, nose, ears, and reflexes. He will now listen to my heart by putting the stethoscope on the back. At this point I take deep breaths and have to cough for him. After this he puts the stethoscope under the gown and listens to my heart. Now he asks if it is ok if he removes the top of the gown so he can do a breast exam. He takes both hands and runs his fingers across the breast looking for lumps. Each breast will take about 30-60 seconds. He does this while I’m still sitting. Then he asks me to lye down and does it again while laying on the table. The first person I went to only did it while I was laying down. I guess everyone has their own style. After this he looks closely at my upper body looking for any signs of skin abnormalities. I spend a lot of time in the sun so it is important to do. While the gown is still off my top half he feels my abdomen and listens with a stethoscope. Then he replaces the gown. Now the Dr asks me to slide down the table and put my feet into the stirrups. At this point he will raise the gown over my lower half. First he inserts a speculum inside the vagina. This will probably be a little uncomfortable the first time. It is worse if you are a virgin or never use tampons. The one my doctor uses is metal, but my last Dr used plastic. At his point he shines a light down there and looks around. Now he does a pap test. All they do is swab the inside of the vagina. It really doesn’t hurt that bad. Now he takes the speculum out and feels inside my vagina and outside and pushes on my lower abdomen while he inserts a few fingers inside the vagina. He simply swabs the inside. It is uncomfortable but doesn’t really hurt. The Dr I presently see does a rectal exam, my previous Dr didn’t. I’ve been told that it is a must over age 45 but good to do earlier. He will insert a finger into your rectal and feel the walls for abnormality. While the finger is still in he puts two more in the vagina and applies a little pressure. After that it’s over. He drapes the gown back over me and that is it. What I suggest is tell your Dr. that it is the first time. It might also make you feel better to see a female. My current Dr is very good about explaining what he is doing. The first time I saw him he actually had a mirror positioned so I could watch what he was doing. As I mentioned, rather than having a chaperone bring a friend or a boyfriend/fiancée/husband. This is what I did and it worked out well, not only did I feel more comfortable that my boyfriend was there (now my husband) I knew that nothing could go wrong. He was glad to help me in any way he could. Actually it brought us closer together. Now it won’t be a big deal when I drag him with when I’m pregnant. Some people say they feel more uncomfortable with a significant other. It is strictly up to you and what makes you feel comfortable. Well good luck. As I mentioned e-mail me and let me know if this helps. Also e-mail me after the exam and let me know how it went. My e-mail is K25JT@Excite.com Good Luck! Kara
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