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Re: Not sure how to ask this question, it's about anal sex
From: Winter (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed, 18 Oct 2000 17:22:03 -0500 (CDT)
If it hurt and you didnt enjoy it, why do it again? was your boyfriend
really excited about it even if you were in pain??
At Wed, 18 Oct 2000, Rebecca wrote:
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>My boyfriend just surprised me with this one for the 1st time last
>weekend. What an experience! I have never been particularly interested
>in trying it, but I like to be openminded..so... Anyway, Yes, it hurt
>and I didn't enjoy it. I will however try again if the conditions are
>right because I heard from friends that you have to get used to it
>sometimes. Make sure if you do it use LOTS OF LUBE. We didn't and I
>literally bled for days. Also you must be VERY relaxed (I wasn't, I was
>standing in the shower trying not to slip). Bottom line, don't do it
>unless you have a good reason to or WANT to try it, and only do it with
>someone you care about because you may cry (unless you don't mind doing
>something that personal with just anyone...lol)
>So, that's my opinion. I have friends who love it, so go figure :o)
>
>At Wed, 18 Oct 2000, Winter wrote:
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>>for some reason, I have been hearing it more and more about women having
>>and supposedly enjoying anal sex....in my mind it sounds very
>>unpleasant. Is it just me or is there a bad trend happening here and
>>why do I feel like I am not normal if I dont happen to enjoy it?? I like
>>to be sexually active and I have fun, but seems like the past month, I
>>see and hear about women having anal sex. If a guy prefers anal sex,
>>shouldnt he be with a man??? I am feeling a little inadaqute because of
>>this. Please tell me MOST woman (and men) dont like anal sex.
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