WOMENS-HEALTH Messages for June, 2000: Re: Kind of a poll...How many times a month? MORE INFO

Re: Kind of a poll...How many times a month? MORE INFO

From: Victoria (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Thu, 29 Jun 2000 22:06:51 -0500 (CDT)

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At Sat, 17 Jun 2000, anon wrote: >
>No, no children. Husband did just start new job that he hates but that
>was in the past year. We have also moved twice in three years. No
>money problems. (No kids :-) ) His father did have major heart problems
>when this "problem" began. He died twice. His parents retired to
>Flordia and he never sees them, but again that was only this year. I
>have had the same job for 5 years, no major physical changes, and there
>is no difference in our everyday behavior. Actually I think we have
>gotten closer in that respect.
>
>At Sat, 17 Jun 2000, Claudia Twisdale RN wrote:
>>
>>Do you have kids? They are notorious for stealing sex time!
>>
>>At Sat, 17 Jun 2000, anon wrote:
>>>

Well if it helps at all, my husband and I have only been married for a little over six months and some months we do it several times a day and other months we only do it once to a few times a week. With us it depends on how we are feeling physically and what our schedules. He is in the Navy so sometimes by the time I get him back from them he is just plain wiped out. I have been feeling the symptoms of pregnancy lately so we've not done anything in a long time. I think it all depends on your circumstances. When I feel a lack of closeness between us, I bring it up to my hubby and we talk about it and generally things resole themselves. I personally don't believe that there is a "normal average", but I am not a medical health professional, just a plain old wife. >>>My husband and I have only been married for four years and our sex life
>>>has gone down the toilet. He tells me it is normal and that I am
>>>getting worried over nothing.
>>>
>>>We have on average sex once a month. It was never like this when we
>>>were dating. Then we had it every time we saw eachother. I have asked
>>>him to tell me what I can do to increase his sex drive and he tells me
>>>that this is normal???? I don't know if I can live my whole life in a
>>>platonic relationship. I want that type of physical connection.
>>>
>>>Now before I suggest that we see a doctor about this, I do want some
>>>information to try and convince him that this is not normal. So how
>>>often is "average."
>>>
>>>Thanks!

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Victoria

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